2013 Flooding in Southern Alberta and Your Wedding: What to Do?

by Sharon Auld, WPICC of Naturally Chic  in Banff, AB and Canmore, BC

The recent events in many parts of Southern Alberta are a strong reminder of how powerful Mother Nature is and how extreme weather can wreak havoc on your wedding day plans.

Your wedding day is supposed to be one of the most important and special days of your life, so what do you do when the unthinkable happens and extreme weather forces you to alter your wedding day plans? While I don’t pretend to have all the answers, I couldn’t help but think of all the couples who have weddings planned for this weekend (or in the  very near future) in any of the areas in Southern Alberta currently affected by massive, and widespread flooding. I have no doubt that many of you are uncertain as to what to do next and are scrambling to make alternate plans, or to make the decision to postpone your wedding. The reality is that many couples will have to to do just that.  There are entire areas of Southern Alberta including, Calgary and Canmore are still in a state of emergency. The damage and devastation is wide spread.  We also do not fully know the extent of the damage or how long clean up efforts might take.

To put things into perspective, this is the worst flooding Calgary and many surrounding communities have ever faced. The property damage and loss will be substantial. It’s estimated that over a hundred thousand people have been evacuated from their homes and immediate aide of food, supplies and personal effects are needed. People in some hospitals and seniors’ homes have been evacuated and relocated from flood affected areas. Families with children have been displaced from their homes.  Many people who have not been displaced, are without power, gas or water. There are even people who have lost or at risk of losing their homes.  I can’t even imagine what these people are going through right now. Sadly there has even been a tragic loss of lives. I don’t say these things to cause alarm or frighten anyone, but what I do know is that many couples and their guests are coming in from all over the globe to be married in Calgary and the Canadian Rocky Mountains areas of Canmore, Kananaskis, the Town of Banff, and surrounding areas in Banff National Park. Many of these people simply are not aware of the magnitude of this situation.

While our care and concern is for everyone’s safety (including our pets and animals), and our hearts and prayers go out to all those who have been affected by the flooding, as wedding professionals we also know how important  your wedding is to you and your families. It is supposed to be a once in a lifetime, special occasion for you, your families and your guests to enjoy.  You have invested much time and money into crafting the perfect day for you and your loved ones to enjoy. You have potentially taken time off work and have guests flying in from all over the world. Many people have put in a lot of hard work and sacrifice to make your day happen. Maybe you are facing pressure by some individuals for you to cancel your wedding, while others are encouraging you to go ahead with it. What should you do?

No doubt you are experiencing mixed emotions (and we can’t say we blame you). How do you proceed with what should be a joyous occasion when many people around you are displaced or hurting? What is happening all around is disheartening for everyone, let alone someone planning their wedding. Not only that, you’ve never planned a wedding before and you’re not sure what to do next.  If your wedding is this weekend and the venue is flooded or inaccessible, then you may have no choice but to relocate or postpone it, but what if your wedding is in the coming weeks?  Unfortunately, there is probably not one clear cut answer as every wedding and situation is different. As well, the situation is changing daily and thankfully, it appears we have now turned a corner and can, with great hope, focus on rebuilding. Regardless, you will have to make a personal decision on what you will do with what you have available to you.

So what do you do? You have invested substantially both financially and in time, and you have signed contracts with all of your wedding professionals. The first thing you need to do is speak with them and see where things are at because every situation is truly different.  Keep in mind, that many of your wedding vendors may be affected by the recent events. Don’t be alarmed if they are not able to get back to you immediately (I personally know of several wedding professionals who have been displaced from their homes, many of which were not even home at the time their homes were evacuated. There are even a few who are at risk of losing their homes. Power and internet is intermittent at best for some  – one of the reasons this post has taken me so long to get out! Things have changed rapidly, and I’ve had to rewrite it several times!). My best advice is to be patient. Caring and understanding can go a long way when you do reach your vendors!

You will need to speak with all your wedding professionals including your wedding venue and / or caterer, planner, photographers, dj or musicians, florists, rental companies, cake person, transportation company, and anyone else involved in your wedding. If you have a planner, they are a good person to contact first as they can help guide you through the process of what needs to be done.  Aside from your planner (or if you don’t have one), contact your wedding venue first. Undoubtedly you have substantial financial investment with them. You need to know if they are operational. You need to know who is still available to help you and who (for various reasons) may not be able to help.

Another point you need to keep in mind is your legal contracts with the various wedding professionals. Most professionals will have a “force majeure” clause in their contract with you (which is loosely translated as a “great force”). Most commonly, this clause is used with reference to “Acts of God or Nature”. Contracts vary, but some contracts may state that they (the vendor) cannot be held responsible for such acts. This may mean that they physically are not in a position to help you (ie. the venue is flooded out or has no power making it impossible for them to host your event) and unless you’ve purchased wedding insurance (which is a good idea), you could still be responsible for fees owed. The contract should spell out exactly what will happen to fees you have previously paid, and the money you owe in the event that this clause must be executed. Hopefully, all your vendors will be equitable, reasonable, flexible and compassionate where they can be (We have an amazing wedding industry in Calgary and the Bow Valley and many professionals have already been working together to do whatever they can to ensure beautiful weddings for their clients), but keep in mind some vendors may have to, for various reasons, execute the clause. In many cases the clause is there to protect you as the client too. In any event, you need to discuss your contract with the vendors, assess what can and can’t be done, and then come up with a viable action plan.

You may need to negotiate with your wedding professionals. But again, keep in mind some businesses may be hurting themselves! Negotiation needs to be fair (and a hopefully a win / win) for everyone involved. This may mean you have to make concessions. Perhaps this means having a buffet dinner instead of a plated meal (because a the venue cannot physically staff enough people to serve you a plated meal), or that you may have to have your wedding during the week instead of on the weekend. Perhaps this means that you will have to forego the special lighting and fancy linens coming in from out of town, and use the venue’s linens instead. Perhaps this means that you have to purchase cupcakes from the grocer down the street or that you will have to work with replacement vendors. Whatever it may mean, you have to figure out what’s possible, what will work, and more importantly, if you are okay with it? Will this mean your wedding will be rescheduled to another date, relocated, or still happen but in a reduced capacity?

After consultation with your vendors (and perhaps after further discussion with your family, guests or other stakeholders), you will need to make a decision. Is the wedding still possible, however altered it may be? Perhaps you will be pleasantly surprised to know that it can go off exactly as planned (we can hope right?) More likely, you will have to make some changes or concessions to your original plans. Have you weighed the pros and cons of your decision? If you do decide to go ahead with your wedding, whether it be at your original venue, or an alternate one, your number one priority should be the safety and well being of all your guests. As mentioned, every situation is different and you will need to be realistic and reasonable in all your decisions.

Stay tuned as our next post will be on “moving forward” with whatever decision you make. We’ll help you navigate the pros and cons of your decisions and provide you with tips and resources as you move forward.

Whether you or a bride, groom, or wedding professional, please feel free to weigh in with your thoughts or share your experiences in the comments.

We wish everyone planning a wedding during this difficult time, all the best! Please know your wedding community is still here for you!

**PS if your wedding is not in the next upcoming weeks, you may want to touch base with your wedding vendors, but please be patient as they may be dealing with more immediate weddings.

Naturally Chic is a full service wedding and event design company based in Alberta, Canada specializing in destination weddings in the Canadian Rocky Mountains. They believe that life is an adventure and that every day is an opportunity to live your life with passion, adventure and meaning. Life’s too short!  Have fun, laugh often and be yourself!  Celebrate your wedding day and every day with Style!

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